๐ฑ Love Looks Like This
๐จโ๐ฆ When I asked my 11-year-old son to help unload a truckload of dirt for my wifeโs garden, he groaned, rolled his eyes, and shuffled outside like Iโd asked him to climb a mountain. Hoodie up. Shoulders slumped. Every step, reluctant.
โ โWhy do we have to do this?โ he muttered.
My reply was simple: โWhen you love someone, you serve them.โ
๐ช He didnโt like that answer. But he picked up the shovel anyway. Together, we worked until the dirt was moved.
๐ธ The next day, without a word from me, he went out again. This time not for me โ but for his mom. Quiet. Intentional. No groans. Just small hands on a big shovel, moving dirt for the woman he loves most.
๐ When she asked him why, his answer was soft but steady: โBecause I love you.โ
๐ And in that moment, I understood: love isnโt always grand gestures or perfect words. Sometimes itโs sweaty brows, dirt under fingernails, and a boy learning that real love is showing up โ even when youโd rather not.